Wedding planning covers the entire spectrum of human emotion – it is fun, spontaneous, stressful, tiring, exciting and of course super awkward sometimes! It is the awkward moments and how you handle them that really counts. Here’s a heads up for every soon to be bride or groom over awkward moments you may encounter:
Guest list(s)
Your guest list will be different from your partner’s. That’s expected. However, families always have their own ideas on who to invite. These may range from people you barely know or care about to people you frankly cannot stand. Be polite but firm about who you want to be present on YOUR special day.
Goofing off
It may happen that one partner (usually the bride) takes on all the responsibilities while the groom slacks off. This is really down to cultural expectations since the bride is expected to be more excited and hence more hands on. Play to the groom’s strengths so that he too can do his fair share of the work.
The budget
How much money should you spend and on what? What priorities should you pick over others? You and your partner might want different things. Sit down and fix the budget. And then stick to it.
Religious/cultural differences
If you and your partner are from different religions that’s no reason to fight! Make an effort to include important ceremonies from each religion so that the traditions of both parties are upheld equally. Think the Deepika Padukone and Ranveer Singh wedding where they essentially went along with the important rituals of both parties.
Legal issues
The prenup trend is fast catching up in India. It is a way for each partner to protect their assets in case of separation or divorce. While getting a prenup is rooted in common sense, it can create issues of trust and commitment because you are essentially making preparations if and when you break up. No matter which partner insists upon the prenup, the other should try to understand their reasoning instead of thinking them insensitive or shallow.
Most of all don’t forget to enjoy your wedding planning!
